My parents threw me out of their house, waiting until I was away one weekend before dumping my belongings in a storage unit and telling me I could collect the key. I felt trapped, a Brethren failure, and ultimately convinced that I needed to confess my sexuality. There are, however, a number of organizations, trusts, and support agencies that have been set up with the purpose of servicing Brethren (and sometimes like-minded) churches. [], Many Exclusive Brethren work in Brethren owned companies in order to reduce contact with outsiders. New rules came thick and fast from the 1960s, when the world leader of the time James Taylor Jnr, an alcoholic businessman from Brooklyn, New York enforced the principle of "separation". Members control a network of secret trusts, their 8000 members earn. Faced with being separated once more, we broke down and cried on each other's shoulders, and I realised how much I still loved my brother. Such clandestine adventures frequently led to feelings of guilt and shame, and I regularly confessed my so-called sins to the Brethren "priests" as a teenager. I was told I was rebellious and had a problem with authority. "Bible Churches" tend to embrace many progressive trends, but generally retain a male-only leadership and continue to disassociate themselves from the Charismatic movement. All members must follow the rigid code of behaviour and rules that govern the contact. McAlpine and Wallis both returned to the United Kingdom, and subsequently left the Brethren movement to help found the House Church Movement. If they do not, they are banned from worship or are isolated from family and only allowed to see particular church members until the ordained priests decide that God has forgiven the "sinner". Over the past two years, Thompson and Clark has conducted hundreds of hours of surveillance on former members who have criticised the cult-like church. (I was lucky to have the first eight years of my education in the public system, which gave me limited exposure to non-Brethren kids, but these days sect children are educated entirely within the Brethren system.) On one occasion a senior leader asked if I was sexually attracted to a local priest. John Hales was eventually accepted back into the church and became its global leader - but the commercial system was not revived until after his death when his son, Bruce Hales, took over. Bruce Hales was a paunchy office furniture salesman from Sydney. I've travelled the world, built a career, fallen in and out of love, and run the gamut of life. Members marry each other, rarely divorce, and are encouraged to have large families. Life in the Exclusive Brethren could be happy enough if you stuck to the rules, Craig says. She also volunteered to take me out for a drink "and tell you all about how much more fun it is being an evil outsider or whatever the heck those loonies call us". Under this doctrine Brethren members were forbidden from socialising, eating, living, or fraternising with non-members, leading to a period of cruel upheaval as followers scrambled to comply. Dargaville also has a well-established Brethren community with a big business presence. Bulk purchasing power is smart business - but according to former members, Brethren were not really "free to choose". It was the first time I'd seen two men so openly showing public affection. Instead I felt condemned to struggle against the essence of who I was. In addition, it appears that the movements leaders are hypocrites a trait common to cult leaders. Attitudes since have become much more diverse, however. Despite the claim that Plymouth Brethren Christian Church is the historic name (http://www.plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch.org/) it is an entirely new invention. Going to the movies meant planning an elaborate cover story, taking a circuitous route to avoid being followed, checking for sect members, and pulling a hood over my face before making the quick dash across Invercargill's Dee St and into Reading Cinemas. However, many leading New Zealand companies are lining up to join the list of preferred suppliers to what former members describe as a captive market. In December 2007, not long after my ultimate confession, I was ushered to a consultation with Hales when he visited Invercargill for special church meetings. "So let's say their profit was $200,000 and they decided to donate $50,000. Families were ripped down the middle. Remembers Adrian: "Once you were out, you started to question it." They believe the rules have been relaxed since their time in the fold. Later, when I called in to pick up some extra things, I saw my 9-year-old sister. This is a list of individuals who were part of the Open Brethren movement in New Zealand for at least a part of their lives. The worldwide leader of the Exclusive Brethren, having ruled since his father John Hales died in January 2002, he had a penchant for good food and an even greater penchant for good whisky. In April 2009, finally ready to make my move, I called a meeting with the priests and told them I was leaving the Exclusive Brethren. It wasn't long after that I heard the song Burning Bridges on the radio: All the burning bridges that have fallen after me, All the lonely feelings and the burning memories, Everyone I left behind each time I closed the door. I began talking to outsiders for help and advice. And all the old people in the Exclusive Brethren now, they're all depressed, because they know it's all wrong. [28] By 1911, it had become known as the Gospel Publishing House, but this name has since been depreciated. "That's news to me. ", Rob McLean, who was excommunicated from the church over a decade ago, said for many older Brethren, the commercial control of the church was history repeating itself. Once more I find myself a free agent a chrysalis emerging for another cycle of reinvention. I had a whole drawer of Richard Allan and Liberty Silk scarves." The smell of fresh baking reminds me of Mum in the kitchen, cooking dinner while juggling seven children and still getting us to church on time. The following are some of the institutions that are widely supported by Brethren assemblies in New Zealand. Source: The Exclusive Brethren, BBC. So many, many tears, streaming over blackboards and permanent ink. Watch this clip from the 2005 documentary Leaving the Exclusive Brethren, which includes rare interviews with young members of the church. Numerous questions are explored, such as What exactly was their interest in politics? It was an ill-advised attempt at escape. New Zealand's Exclusive Brethren, who number fewer than 2000, operate about 800 small businesses, according to a political pamphlet they released in 2002. The Exclusive Brethren church has been using the controversial private investigators Thompson and Clark to spy on former members of the church. And in other parts of the country, I was known for being against UBT, so that was where I felt the pressure.". "There were real pissheads in there: they drink heaps, it's the only thing you're allowed to do." Contra Peebs.net (Contra) This web site deals with the Exclusive Brethren from a critical perspective. Television is a strange thing. "And in this case, the companies involved appear to be under the control of the church.". I stayed briefly with my aunt and uncle in Palmerston North, and in January 2008 I was sent on to stay in Sydney under the watchful eye of Bruce Hales himself. I think there's a little bit of scaremongering going on. Sydney marked a new chapter. Meanwhile, ex-Brethrens here and overseas are telling of the pain of being shunned by family still in the church. The Exclusive Brethren churches have a rigid code of behavior and rules governing anything from contact with outsiders to the length of ones hair or the approved colors of the scarves worn by female members. Note: In 2012, the Exclusive Brethren movement renamed itself Plymouth Brethren Christian Church in an apparent effort to sow confusion about its true nature and origins. The Stewards Trust and Stewards Foundation are two separate, but closely related, organizations with identical membership. Some negative features cant be avoided, but my intent is to present a positive and comprehensive outline of the history and ministry of the recovery of the truth. "It was known in my local church that I wasn't subscribing to it and I was treated with disdain, like a black sheep. Afterthe case had concluded, it's understood Stewart was ostracised by members of the church. They ban technology. Diana: "I had a great family life, I loved Mum and Dad and my brothers." She explained how chalk could be dusted away. A recent relationship breakup felt similarly traumatic but through it all I repeated my mantra: "I survived leaving the Brethren, I can survive this, too." These sessions often involved alcohol. This cult-like control is unbiblical, and is one of the reasons why the movement has attracted negative publicity. "We are accused of being secretive; it's more that we want to keep our heads down and live according to our convictions. READ MORE: * Exclusive Brethren cult leader's millionaire son accused of assault * Father of girl sexually assaulted by former Exclusive Brethren member wants abuser jailed * Exclusive Brethren members in 'clean-up' operation after fatal crash * Potential witness in Exclusive Brethren sex abuse case paid to remain silent * Former Brethren allege high rate of abuse in New Zealand * Exclusive Brethren: Sect's secretive leader tells followers to drink rat poison * Exclusive Brethren told to 'pray for the IRD' after favourable settlement * Baby Leo's dad Samuel Forrest to sue Exclusive Brethren church. Exclusive Brethren meeting halls exclude the world to the extent of having no windows. The first shows I watched were The Simpsons and Family Guy. "I got on very well with my father, and I was never there in the years you want to be there, when they get old and you want to do their lawns." Other members who have been through the justice system have also been "withdrawn from" when members are ordered to sever ties completely with the accused. []. Then they can claim that as a deduction in their accounts and reduce their tax liability at the end of the day. The man, who has name suppression, was being considered for parolelast week. I love being a journalist and wouldn't trade it for anything. Exclusive Brethren Information provided by Reachout Trust, a Christian apologetics and countercult organization The Exclusive Brethren Excellent overview by the BBC. I was with other young people from the church and couldn't risk being found out. Children are often educated within the Brethren community, although many Brethren children do attend mainstream schools. New Zealand's Exclusive Brethren, who number fewer than 2000, operate about 800 small businesses, according to a political pamphlet they released in 2002. * An internal memo sent to Brethren worldwide leaked to One News talks about setting up an umbrella group code-named National Office Assist. An anguished wail from an aunt still rings in my ears. 16, 2006. The local rainbow support group occasionally published contact details in the classified section of the newspaper, and for months I scanned The Southland Times waiting for the next listing. This is far from the Open Brethren idea that individual churches should have a great deal of freedom in their dealings with others. They're allowed to talk to us now," says Adrian. The Exclusive Brethren are now divided into a number of groups, most of which differ on minor points of doctrine or practice. Exclusive Brethren an evil, corrupt cult, court told Kevin Rudd allows secret talks with 'cult' Brethren's Qld schools gain $3m Inside the Brethren lobby horse Member of sect stalked women Exclusive access for anti-gay cult Exclusive Brethren school given $1m state grants Brethren schools net $18m funding No university for Exclusive Brethren kids Hot, silent tears come from nowhere grief, yes, but hard to pinpoint. Charlotte wrote a letter of recommendation for AUT's Bachelor of Communications degree, and I started working at TV3 as a first-year student. The evangelist and hymn-writer James George Deck arrived in New Zealand in 1853 and established the first formal Brethren assembly at Ngtmoti, near Nelson, on 1 January 1863, although historian Peter Lineham believes that Christians had already been meeting informally on Brethren lines in nearby Motueka for some time. The leader is regarded as a person of inherent moral power, following in the tradition of the leaders of the past and upholding their teaching in such a way as to lift the membership out of the world of wickedness. Denied tertiary education and IT-illiterate, they're ill-equipped for many jobs in the outside world. In reality, this extremist movement is a cult or sect of the Plymouth Brethren. Jeff Wearmouth, whose son James was killed in the June 2016 crash which Stewart was convicted for,said he was surprised to hear Stewart had been 'shut up'. Members of the Exclusive Brethren do not make friends, or even eat with people outside their church. Life as an Exclusive Brethren had its good sides. We held back from each other it's hard to trust someone again when you've closed off that part of your heart but our reservations fell away the day before I left for Hong Kong. But by the time this final step was taken, on October 31 2009, I faced more pressing issues. They keep themselves apart because they believe that "it is impossible for God to fully bless and use his children who are in compromise or complicity with evil". The truth always does." Darby held that true Christians should separate not only from the churches, which were corrupt, but also from those who were impure in faith or morals. Falling into journalism was an astonishing stroke of luck. * Firms clustered in around 40 towns and cities, mostly provincial centres "My own personal view is that as a large multinational corporate that prides itself on being one of the top 100 most ethical companies in the world, it [Crombie Lockwood] shouldn't be participating in a kickback scheme like this.". Once David Tchappat had a taste of the real world as a teenager, there was no going back despite the fact he knew he would be cruelly ostracised from his family, friends and the only life he had known. At the age of 20, I found myself learning the ways of the world for the first time, and was baffled by how it all worked. By the time I was born, in the late autumn of 1989, the Exclusive Brethren had morphed into an oppressive sect that tightly managed every aspect of its members' lives. Separate Lives [Transcripts | Video] An edition of the Four Corners investigative journalism TV program of the Australian Broadcasting Corporation. The Exclusive Brethren are a religious group who forbids their members from voting but are taking out ads in the Tasmanian newspapers telling non believers how to vote. I was a seventh-generation member of the Plymouth/Exclusive Brethren. My Brethren calls for a return to our spiritual heritage, to the Scriptural principles, practices and teachings of former years and to the acceptance of personal responsibility for the maintenance of the truth in our days. Note that the version at the Internet Archive is, at times, slow to open and that not all internal links may work. The men must have short hair, be clean shaven and are prohibited from wearing ties.. Ship visits to New Zealand became increasingly frequent in the 1860s, and Exclusives back in the British Isles began to hear reports that the New Zealand Brethren were deviating from accepted norms. doctrine) to which they subscribed. Complete rejection, and uncritical acceptance, of this movement are both minority positions among New Zealand Brethren today. Together they employ at least 60 people, either Brethren or Christian. Brethren run at least 12 firms in Dargaville - mostly in trade and farm supplies - many clustered in an industrial complex on the town's southern edge. "That's not the role the church should play.". Former members of the Exclusive Brethren allege the secretive sect is breaking up families, putting members in isolation and attacking their livelihoods in order to maintain control. I wish him well.". "A lot of guys, they've got a perception out here it's just one big orgy. Many of UBT's vendors are leading global brands which provide a wide range of products and services, from travel, corporate fuel cards to insurances. Sociologically the movement has many cult-like elements as well. I knew I was breaking her heart, but had no choice. Wearmouth said it had been an "incredibly difficult" two years since his son died. This is often seen as one of many signs that the line of demarcation between Brethren assemblies and other independent Evangelical churches is becoming blurred a situation that some Brethren welcome, and some do not. I wrote to Bruce Hales thanking him for his help, imparting the good news that I had overcome my sinful feelings. "We had to go to business meetings, paid thousands of dollars to go to business meetings all round New Zealand. One of them lifted his bare feet onto the lap of the other and leaned back in his chair. Members of Exclusive Brethren churches are expected to be totally loyal to the leader of the Exclusive Brethren. They adopted the new name, as did their counterparts in Australia (the Christian Community Churches of Australia) to avoid confusion with the similarly named Plymouth Brethren Christian Church. It meant no TV, radio or recorded music, no pets, parties, school outings, plays or. The leader of the Exclusive Brethren church, Bruce Hales. Minding their business * Fewer than 2000 Exclusive Brethren New Zealanders Says Diana: "To this day my parents are heartbroken, because they can't have anything to do with us. Charities researcher Michael Gousmett said it appeared Brethren businesses were being used to generate donations, which also reduced the amount of tax paid by those companies. It also produces The Silver Bulletin. In New Zealand there are at present at least 6,000 Exclusive Brethren, which is about three times their estimated numbers in 2006, although exact figures are not . At least one member of the House of Commons has been mislead. As a young child the chorus mystified me. Although he did not commit himself exclusively to the Brethren movement, his former steward, James Chrystall helped organize his converts into Brethren assemblies, which expanded from the Whanganui/Manawatu area.[12]. Broadcast Mar. [31] Its current principal is Dr Francine Bennett. Brethren came to differ on whether the basis of unity was to be tested by the common life they followed, or the common light (i.e. [11], Meanwhile, Gordon Forlong, a Scottish lawyer turned evangelist who had played a prominent role in the Second Great Awakening in Scotland around 1859-1860 and had subsequently moved to England and founded a large congregation, Talbot Tabernacle, in Notting Hill, London, emigrated to New Zealand in 1876, where he spent the final thirty-two years of his life. Brethren families as well as businesses are also encouraged to buy goods and services from companies which give cash back to UBT and the National Assistance Fund, including petrol and groceries. Within days the Brethren tracked me down in Christchurch and appealed for my return. What clinched it for them was realising they "could never say to our children 'we can't have you in the house', like our parents said to us". and How did a group whose values are detached from those of most Australians infiltrate the highest office in the land? Tears. He's had his own serious, serious loss. Petrie, then 74, was jailed for2 years for the offences. Baby Craig, left, with his cousin and their grandmother. I saw a GP for a second opinion; a white-haired doctor who brusquely imparted there was nothing wrong with me, and "your emotions are a completely normal response to an extreme situation". Members marry other members. An evangelical church based in Christchurch is the latest to be accused of exploiting members for long voluntary hours and huge donations, despite the church owning assets worth millions of dollars. [29] Of all Brethren institutions, Pastorlink is one of the newest: it is only in the last twenty to thirty years that the practice of having pastors has become common in Brethren assemblies in New Zealand. All church members work in Brethren-owned businesses. My gaze rested on them for a few seconds before I looked away. Confessions were a regular part of his teenage years. It operates bookshops and a publishing house, and, for many years, published the Treasury magazine. Please keep out of jail," Hales told followers. But that comes at a cost to the taxpayer because it's obviously a cost to the revenue.". McLean said he was given the envelopes by church elders just before he left New Zealand. It's the same in 40 towns around the country, from Gisborne to Cust. At one church service it was said the spirit of God departed from us if we ever crossed the threshold of a cinema the next time I was at the movies I stepped backwards and forwards through the doorway to see whether it felt any different (it didn't). Old gospel songs trigger something deep inside even though I've long since stopped believing the words. 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"It's a round circle scheme - they are using their businesses to pay 'donations' back to their own church and then they are claiming that back as a tax deductible expense.". They are not allowed to form friendships with people outside the church, who are known as 'worldlies'. However within 25 years of the Plymouth Brethren forming, one of the founders a certain John Nelson Darby asserted his dominance, breaking away and forming a separatist sect referred to by others as the Exclusive or Closed Brethren. While Open Brethren tolerate autonomy in individual congregations, Exclusive Brethren do not. "Going out with people you've never met before - a whole different culture." Sadie Stewart, 16, James Wearmouth, 18, and Susanna Stewart, 48, died when the ute driven by Russell Stewart crashed into a tree. The marriage relationship is very much a partnership. See also the articles in our news tracker. He's organising a reunion for "ex-peebs" next Easter, and is expecting 150. Video first published in 2015. "When you pull out one of those Jenga blocks it can make the whole pile quite unstable. I've been chased, tear-gassed, and had a few close calls with petrol bombs. If they dont they are withdrawn from i.e. The medication left me lethargic and unhappy and I stopped taking it after a few weeks, although I had enough repeats on the prescription to last for a year. Brethren have built 36 Campus & Co supermarkets in New Zealand for their members' exclusive use, staffed partly by "volunteers". James Deck brought the religion to New Zealand in 1853. I wrote "I'm gay" on a piece of paper and pushed it across the table to the priest. The main gospel hall in Dargaville resembles a converted factory, with narrow frosted windows on one side only. No member is allowed to eat in the same room as a worldly person, they are forbidden from owning a pet and they are restricted from socialising with anyone outside of the Exclusive Brethren. BORN into the controversial Exclusive Brethren cult that outlaws birthdays, pop music and women wearing trousers or make-up, Jessie Shedden, 34, needed every ounce of courage to plan her escapeR Within two years I moved from never having watched TV, to working in a TV newsroom. Until then my transgressions had been minor offences that could be excused away; forgiven, with a warning not to repeat my mistakes. And representations of Brethren women as oppressed are "rubbish. Apologetics Index curates research resources on religious movements, cults, sects, world religions and related issues. Massey religious history expert Peter Lineham believes the political campaigns are part of a masterplan orchestrated by the powerful, rich Sydney-based world leader Bruce Hales, implemented here by a select group of Brethren businessmen. Source: The Exclusive Brethren, BBC. Forced against his will to take sides, Deck remained with the Exclusives, but his family was divided. [8], The slow pace of communication between the British Isles and the far-flung colony of New Zealand allowed Deck to operate more or less independently. The leaders get the children drinking it. Rob McLean questions the Exclusive Brethren beliefs and practices that led to his ejection from the group. The following few months were the worst of my life. influencing the lives of the brethren and leading to a deeper apprehension of the Lords Supper and the enrichment of the service of God. They recommended that I become a journalist, and took me in to TV3 to meet their executive producer. The awful, incomprehensible reality of being true to yourself is that sometimes it means hurting those you love most dearly. If our kids were to see my husband's parents in the street, they'd say 'Hello', and 30 seconds later it would be 'I best be on my way'." Brethren were long noted for teaching cessationism the idea that the so-called sign gifts (such as miracles, divine healing, and speaking in tongues) were given only to the early church to authenticate the apostles, and "ceased" with the death of the last apostle. He is Australian Bruce Hales. This magazine, founded in 1899 by Charles Hinman,[27] long played a leading role in keeping the highly independent Brethren assemblies together as a network. Two months ago that name did not exist. They were used as cash-cows by their leaders. "We made it our own fun." After the UK Charity Commissions refusal to grant Charity Status to the Exclusive Brethren, in the summer of 2012, an observer provided a series of explanatory comments regarding that decision: 2.10 Misleading information: whilst it is of course legitimate to change a name and reconstruct a website, it should not be done in such a way as to make it appear that it involves an entirely different organisation. [7] Unlike Darby, he did not believe in maintaining insularity from non-Brethren Christians, and preached in churches of many denominations. Long before Exclusive Brethren men hired a private investigator to dig dirt on the Prime Minister and other Labour politicians, before Brethren tried to pressure several political parties into a National-led coalition, before the so-called "Secret Seven" Brethren businessmen put almost $1 million into anti-Labour and anti-Green pamphlet campaigns at last year's election, members of this fundamental Christian fellowship have been part of the commercial fabric of this town, and the wider Kaipara district. And I did. Photo: RNZ. Theyneedpeople around. The axe had fallen, and the Brethren had "withdrawn" from me. Initially, they saw no need for any but the simplest pattern of organization, and their separation from all existing churches was not conceived as a negative decision, but rather as the only basis on which the unity of true Christians could be established. "When I read about some of the conduct the Brethren get up to, it's more like a cult-like organisation than a mainstream religion. My family ties stretched back nearly 200 years to when the Plymouth Brethren sect was founded in Dublin in the 1820s. * Business types include farm machinery, agriculture, horticulture, orchards, vineyards, office furniture and trades Growing up in the Exclusive Brethren meant missing out on a lot of things other children took for granted. The Exclusive Brethren are a subset of the Christian evangelical movement generally described as the Plymouth Brethren. Photos come down from the wall and you disappear from Brethren lists, never to be spoken of again, except in hushed tones as a warning to others. In. 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